Acceptable

This one was inspire by something that I wrote about the movie Watchmen. I said that there was probably language in it, and a lot of it, but it just didn't register with me anymore. I later looked it up and the movie had more than 50 curse words that i failed to recall just one hour after watching it. once again i would just like to say i don't promote this movie for reasons noted in the forward. But for purposes of this topic I will refer to it because it is a perfect example of what i am about to talk about.

This got me thinking as to what simply "didn't register" with me any longer, and why that certain thing doesn't register. As i was thinking about this i became reminded of a time when i was really young and had just heard my first curse word and how it was used. Wanting to use my newly discovered vocabulary i tested it on my mom, who proceeded to throw me outside of the house for a while after strictly telling me to never use that word again.

So if I was to study this story, and apply it to life the first thing I noticed is that once I learned something new, it became acceptable to use it until someone told me that it wasn't. Now this philosophy works as long as I do whatever I am told, but unfortunately as human beings that period of our lives does not last very long. At some point in our lives the authority shifts to where our parents no longer control what is acceptable in our lives but we ourselves do. This change for most people happens gradually while we take a little bit of control at a time until we are driving the car I call life on our own.

So once we gain authority in our own lives we begin to make decisions as to what is acceptable and what is not, and this line becomes very specific. For example, I will allow myself to hear this word and say it, or i will allow myself to hear this word, that is fine, i just can't say it, or simple saying that this word is unacceptable. And we decide what is ok for every single word that we hear. But this doesn't simply stop at words either, violence, sexual content or virtually anything else also apply.

How does one go from the stage of life where it is unacceptable to even hear something to the point where basically anything that is said is not only allowed to be heard, but will be included into my mental vocabulary where it will eventually spill out into my verbal vocabulary? I think it starts at the point where one thing becomes acceptable. A good example from my life would be the F- word. When i was in middle school this word used to bother me when i heard it because it was always said in anger and it was perceived by my brain as a nasty word. As i grew up this word began to carry less and less baggage with it and i think the point when i truly accepted the word as something that was fine to be heard was my freshmen year of high school. Now till this day this word is still not really a part of my vocabulary, but as i am beginning to find out while I have been playing halo the past few days this words is most diffidently part of my mental vocabulary. This scares me because i don't want to be a person that curses, but i never really knew why i was thinking that word so i had no way of reversing the problem and eventually i would start cursing. Now I know that the reason i am thinking this is because I have heard it somewhere in my past, and the more i hear it the easier it is to recall. So in order to fix this problem i have to stop allowing myself to hear this word, it has to once again become unacceptable. The system of hearing things to saying things somewhat works like a multi leveled fountain. the top pool represents what you allow yourself to hear, or the amount of some word that you allow yourself to hear. once that pool fills up it overflows into your mental vocabulary which will eventually overflow into your verbal vocabulary as long as you allow yourself to hear that word, or anything else you might want to apply this example to.

I know that up until now i have used only words as an example so i'm going to briefly switch to sexual content. just as in words there becomes a point where we accept certain sexual material. the problem with this point is that it is not as clear cut as the word line is. With words you can simple say i refuse to hear this word or that without it bothering me, and thereby accepting it to some degree. with sexual content, however, its not as simple as you won't look at some material and not others because there are so many factors. I.E. this length of shorts is ok but only if the girl is this height... this logic will not work. Now in some cases it is easy to distinguish what is right and wrong, a nude scene is wrong, but what about some tight costume that really doesn't show any skin but might be a little too tight? Well, this really can't come down to a cut and dry case but when it comes down to it the whole idea of what you put in is what will eventually come out still applies. If you women who walk around in really tight clothing all the time, that's what you will eventually begin to see girls as in general. This is why Pornography and all sexual material as a whole is so dangerous, because it gets stuck it your brain and eventually begins to make you objectify women and continually lust after them. Just being real Wit Ya. Now i know that I have only talked about guys looking at girls but it is important to acknowledge that this happens with women too i simply don't have any experience with this so I won't even go there:)

I know its a lot but it was on my mind, you get out of life what you put into it. our mind has no kidney to purify what we feed it. So we simply have to monitor it because if we don't change what we accept then society will continue to push whatever they can get away with, we have to stop it because they won't.

Forward

So, the first thing you need to know is that i am terrible with spelling and grammar, in that area I am not smarter than a fifth grader. So if you want to have fun and comment about how bad it is go ahead, it won't bother me.

That being said i just wanted to write a little bit about why I decided to start this up. I always have random thoughts or complaints or ideas that I used to write down but have currently stopped doing so. this was brought to my attention in an odd way, through a movie. I saw Watchmen tonight, and I must say that it was the first movie in a very long time that I left thinking about life in general, which got me thinking about this. Just a side note, I am not promoting this movie seeing as how it had to many sex scenes, a whole lot of violence that even made me cringe a little, and although i can't really recall it I'm sure there was a lot of fowl language also, sad as it is those kinds of words don't register with me anymore. So its not that the movie itself was bad plot wise or lacked ideas, it just had too many salty things in it for me to suggest it to anyone, perhaps once its on DVD and you can skip stuff.

But back to the main topic, so i left the theater thinking about life and all it holds, which made me get the idea of starting to write my random things down again because i like to enjoy them at a later time. then i got to thinking that if I would enjoy them then maybe others would enjoy them too. So here they shall be placed, for all to read. Of course I'm not going to put all of my thoughts on here because i just don't want you knowing some things:) But whatever i do put on here i hope you enjoy, and if you don't, well , ok.